If your husband put a pillow over your face during...?

Wow, that happened to me before and I was thinking just like you. I was thinking, 1, he's sleeping with somebody else who didn't look like me so he couldn't get excited enough, or 2, I'm the same skin tone as his ex but don't have the face and he may have been reminiscing, or 3, he's insecure and didn't want me to look at him because he kept saying I was beautiful, or 4, I had a painful look on my face which showed him I wasn't really enjoying it. So, based on all my reasons, I would say in your case.....does it really matter? The fact remains he put a pillow over your face, for whatever dumb reason, and could have suffocated you. Your husband is an idiot.